How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 07:58
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Can being annoyed be a sign of getting angry?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Why do I get spun and then want big fat cocks to suck?
Making more friends is a goal.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Why did my crush like me for only two days in a row?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
What are some interests in sharing pictures of wives?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Losing 20kg is a goal.
How can I get a girlfriend? I am 26.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Were any US Generals hurt or killed yesterday in Damascus, Syria, yesterday 5/9/24?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Does not procrastinate.
Procrastinates a lot.
What are you wearing under your clothes today?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Ask yourself:
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
What I need from you?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
That's it for today.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.